Sunday, July 21, 2013

danger is very real, but fear is a choice



Danger is a common thing that happen through our life, it's the circle of life where we cant live without it nor run from it. it is a very magnificient thing that happen through this life for those who realize its a test for success. 

Danger isnt what it seems to be. if people look danger  as the end as his/her carrier, thats wrong. danger need to be look as a chance, there is a hidden key inside every danger where it needs to be opened. and when we opwn it we might saw something that not usually people see. 

usually I relate Danger as Challenges. it is something that we need to face, not to run , it need to be trace not to neglect . because if we run from it, we might lose a chance to learn something that are very precious.

for a baby to stop falling, they need to fall atleast 100 times before they realize they actually not moving very good. that is the sunnahtullah, they think they are good enough with the falling, untuk they found out that walking is better . they need to learn how to fall before they can walk, they need to walk to know how to run. and when they become bigger, some other things they need to learn more from life rather than fall,walk and run. because they have many others things that awaits. so the challenges need to be face even it seems danger. 

when i was young i had a terrible momment facing my fear, this is real. i dont know what is soft skill,i dont know how to talk , in fact! when i talk people dont even realize that im talking. maybe thats the effect when i dont usually get into the community so much.
but then i realize, smooth wave dont make a good sailor
ive started small where i start to intterupt some conversation, and try to build a conversation by myself. alhamdulillah, its getting better but not perfect.

i learn that actually its not me who dont want to take the chance, but the fear inside me is stronger than my courage.
after a few moment i realize that in order to fight my fear, my courage must be stronger. 

there is when i step ahead and tell my self that "danger is very real, but fear is a choice"-will smith





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